Sometimes we just need to look at things from a new point of view. If you were faceing a problem and Jesus came down and set his hand on your back it would change your attitude. He always has your back. Paul lays out a classic example of if you understand this, then let me show you something else teaching.
Romans 7:1 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth?
REMEMBER WHO PAUL WAS.
WHO IS HE TALKING TO?
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
THIS WAS THE LAW, PAUL IS MAKING A POINT.
4 Wherefore, my brethren, ye also are become dead to the law by the body of Christ; that ye should be married to another, even to him who is raised from the dead, that we should bring forth fruit unto God.
DON’T BE MARRIED TO THE LAW.
5 For when we were in the flesh, the motions of sins, which were by the law, did work in our members to bring forth fruit unto death.
NEWNESS OF SPIRIT.
6 But now we are DELIVERED from the law, that being dead wherein we were held; that we should SERVE in NEWNESS OF SPIRIT, and not in the oldness of the letter.
It is God who can give you a fresh start and when he is on your side, everything will work out. Trust him today and you will see, He is a good good God.